Start Loving People For Who They Are

Love people for who they are and not what you them to be. Expectations lead to disappointments; the only person you can rely and expect anything from is yourself, being that you can handle it if you let yourself down.

This is the year to leave all your obstacles in the past, forgive yourself, forgive those who have done ill favored things against you, forgive those who did not believe in you, who we're not there for you. Forgive those who let you down, or didn't treat you the way you know you deserved. 

You are complete with, or without them, you don't need anything more then to wholeheartedly believe in yourself. This is how you can know yourself - to know others. Without a solid structure to teach people, growing up in this society can become confusing.

What is being a 'good person'?

You mean no harm to others so you automatically assume you have a good heart, you are a good person. But can you ever be be complete without truly loving other people? 

People you know, or people you don't know, harboring hate for anyone or anything is the same as harboring hatred for yourself. 

Life is about trying to achieve balance, there would be no such thing as  good without bad. A certain amount of bad, or darkness has to be present within you and everyone else for goodness and light to exist. You want to be disciplined in, 'innerstanding' that the same works for other people. Judge people the same way you would judge yourself. You acknowledge the things you don't like about them; you dislike those things, they are not good for you. But you can still love that person, knowing those things and knowing that, this is how they are or will be. Don't change them, or allow them to change you.

You don't hate a person, you hate the bad things that they do. You hate the darkness within them. Some people carry more darkness then light; so more bad then good, you love the good side and you hate the bad side. At some point you must acknowledge unless they are the definition of evil (which is unlikely) the bad side is not them. It is how they are dealing with their emotions and daily life, they do not know better, or do not currently care for better, but that is not your lesson to teach them.  

 SETTING THE STANDARD

Learn how much of something you can tolerate with out it disturbing your harmony. Look at them like a family member, some you are naturally closer to then others, some make you feel uneasy, some you don't really feel you have much in common with at all, its just the way it is. This will help you avoid bad relationships with anyone because you are objectively deciding what is good for you and how much of it your willing to deal with.

Acknowledge that no one wants to be hated everyone born into this existence wants and needs to be loved, every living thing needs love, it is simply how we are born and the nature of our existence. 

Start loving people for who they are and not what you want them to be